Friday, February 25, 2011

अस का होत.............???????????

aayushyat dar veli j vatate tyamage kahi tari karna astat he khare aahe. baryach da te aaplyala yogyahi vatat. bt samaj te ayogyach mhanto. mg asa vatat evda motha samaj jar te chukiche tharvat asel tar te barobarhi asel.
 bt he man manaylach tayar nasta........... ashaveli konache aikayla have???
karan samaj mhantoy te chukiche aahe ase mhanayche nahi. bt tharvalele niyam kala nusar jar mala manya nastil tar mi samajatil itaranpramane dole zak pane karave, ki man jar manayla tayar nahi aani aapali karne sakshampane mandat asel tar tyache aikle ka jau shakat nahi.......???????????
aata he nuste adhantarit na bolta kahi udaharnanich bolayche zale tar..... LAGNA mulichya aayushyati ultimate aim asu shakte ka....? mhanje jar ekhadya muline lgna na karnyacha vichar kela tar tichya kutumbiyanvar pahad kosalala, bhukampa houn sagle ghar jamindost zale asech react ka kele jate. lagna na karta carrier n family kade laksh kendrit karne impossible gosta ka vatate? 
he sagle mazya manala padlele prashna aahe. manache mhanane ase aahe ki lgna ka karave yachi samaj ji karne deto tyachi uttar jar veglya paddhatine deta yet asli tar..... thodkyat umedicha kal nighun jato mhatarpanat aaple ase koni urat nahi.... tar tyavar jar mulancha prashna asel tar jenva swataha ek mul vadvinyasathi manasik, aarthik drustya saksham hou mhanj 30 nantar tar mul dattak ghyayche. mhanje nantar ektepana vatnar nahi. rahila prashna barobarichya vyaktichi garaj, bhavna share karayla koni tari have.... tar mala kharch asa prashna padto ki kharch navra baykola n bayko navryala purnapane samjun ghetat ka......... ki samjun ghenacha aav aanat kadi swatahachya tar kadi samorchyache man mart asate..........????????? mag asach jar asel tar aayushyachya pratyek valnavar koni na koni close frnds bhetatch asatat. te badlat asle tari tya velchi garj bhagvu shaktat. rahila prashna physical needs cha.... tar jar godi chakhali tar ti punha punha havi havishi vatate. nahitar milat nahi mhatlyavar ek divas marun jate. n jagat anek mahila tyashivay rahatatch na mag.......... baila sanrakshanachi garj asate, galyat mangalsutra asel tar tila samajat man aani aadar asto..... ha samaj jo konalach nava thevlyashiva jevan pachatach nahi ashi sthiti aahe. tyanchya pachnachi jababdari aapan ka ghyaychi............ aani samja lgna nantar tya stree var balatkar zala tar hach ticha navara jo tila 'sanraksha denara' tila char lokat badnav karto, tila ughdyar sodun mokala hoto......... tyaveli kon asata tichya barobar........... te swataha gabhar ukirde funkat firle tari tyana 7 khun maaf hotat n hichi chukhi nastana matra tila janma thepechi shksha ka..........?????????  

22 comments:

  1. tuze mat patate. jar tula lagnach karayche nasel tar kahi harkart nahi ! karan lagn n karata anek jan changale jagatat. pan samaj te manat nahi. kahi sati sobat lagate pan ti sobat ek changala besy friend nahisi karu shakato manala dhir denara asel tar zindagi mast....!

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  2. dhanashri, ek kharch changla aani spashta subject swa anubhavatun mandla aahes.. mala tuzi anek mate patali.. lagna hi vyavstha changli ki vait ya vadat mala nahi shirayache.. pan lagna nakoch ya vishayavar tham asashil tar tu mhantes tasha anek goshti face karavya lagtilach karan samajachi manasikta badlyayla ajun kityek varsha jatil. to sara virodh pachvayachi tayari asel tar tu lagna nako yavar firm rahu shakates.. pan lagna vishaichi tuzi kahi mate matra mala thodi tokachi vatatat... tyat navara vel aalyavar sath det nahi ha ek bhag asla tarihi samavichari aani broad minded purushachi sath labhali tar life chi growth duppat vegane hou shakate.. tuza child dattak ghenyacha vicharhi mala vegla aani chagla vatla pan tyat sudha mala asa vatata ki ektepana yasarkhi jagat chalnari dusari goshta nahi so surekh sath asnara jodidar labhala tar aaushyatil pratyek kshan doghansathi sundar hou shakto..
    itkach sangavasa vatata far negativly lagna ya process cha vichar karu nako.. ti process khup awghad, vichitra aani aaplya manasarkhi nahi yachi mala purna kalpana aahe tarihi....

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  3. ok dear tu heenachya blog varil kiran chi comment vachch. lagna hi phar sundar goshta asate aayushyatil. aani mansane tyacha anubhav gyavach. premacha arth ha premat padalyapeksha laganat padalyavar jast changala kalto. avadha negative vi4 karun kase chalel? vait anubhavapeksha changalya annubhavakade pahayala shik. sudha narayan murti, manda prakash aamate, kasaturba mohndas gandhi, rani abhay bang, sunanda anil avchat, hi kahi nave sangata yetil. hi jodapi tula premacha aani laganacha nava aarth shikavatil.

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  4. Chaan...Aapla aanubhav ya khshtrtla khup kami aahe.......pan aaikyla changla vaata....jasa pratek satya he aaikylach changla vaata....aso.
    Vichar Chan aahe.....!!!

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  5. Dhanashri, It was my aim when I was very small. I have grown up with this thought. I never cared samaj, samaj is never in my mind now also. But not for any reason I got married just for someone. I still loves to live alone.
    In married life I learnt many things which I would hv never make in bacheler life.
    I just want to say that marriage life is more responsible...more difficult...more courageous...need more patience....and its wonderfull too.
    Its like invest your everything for getting nothing. You may loose your everything. But there is still something u can get that u cant count it. I cant imagine it happened with me. It doesnt mean I m enjoying and suggesting u to do so. But I will not say I am not enjoying and apposing it.
    In married life all phases of life are fix...you cant change it. But in unmarried life u have to define it. If you have a fix aim you can do it...just put your all energy in all way and it will be big success sure. But if u want just irresponsible life without any aim then it could be problematic u will later realise.
    I will say dont think abt samaj...think what is true and u believe the most.

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  6. mala tujha sagleach patlele nahi..vichar mhnun ani practicaly tase kaharch shaky asel hi...lagn hi process nishchitch bhayanak ahe..an tyacha mala tujhyapeksha jast anubhaw ahe u knw that...ani mul dattak ghenycha vichar khup changla ahe pan to tujhya ekaki panavarcha tuch upay shodhat aswis as nahi ka watat an tyala ektichech ka bar prem dyache...again sahawas khup mhtwachi gosht ahe konas thauk tula changlach jodidar milala tar..aplyala naki kontya karnasathi to hwa he sangata nakkich yenar nahi te fakt tyala mhnje allah lach mahit..emotional an physical yach need astat ka mansachya...kahich need nasnyachi jaga hi tar koni tai bharavi lagtech ki dhan...ya majya blogwarchi ek chhanshi comment ahe nakki wach..tujh mat parivartan vagere naki karyach faqt vach..baki sagal tuchyawarch... http://me-my-thought.blogspot.com/2011/02/kabhi-yunhi-bhi-to-ho.html#comments

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  7. Namskar ,Sarvapratham Tuz Abhinandan. Ek Gambhir Vishay tevdhyach takdine mandlya baddal.
    Nisrgacha Niyam todlyane tyacha Aaplyala trasach hoto aani practically he sidhhi zalay tyamule lagna n karta jivan jagne hi mala Nisrga niyam todnyasarkhech watte. Pan, Atal Bihari Vajpeyee(Ex P.M.) ,Apj Kalam(Ex President), Mayawati (C.M. UP), Uma Bharti(Ex C. M.) , Kavita Mahajan (Reknown Writer) ashi kahi nav sangta yetil ki jyanni Avivahit(vratasta) rahun aap-aaplya kshetrat unchi gathli. Pan ya pratekancha Itihas baghitlyas Tyanchya Kshetrat tyanna Aamulagra badal ghadwnyasathi ha nirnay gyava lagla aani samajane to swikarlahi. Pan mala nahi watat ki samajatil pratekkanech ya mahan vyaktincha “Aadarsh” theun Dheypraptisathi OR samajatil Jirna Zalelya parampara modnyasathi Avivahit rahnyacha Nirnay Ghetla te.
    Abhay Bang yanna molachi sath Denarya Rani Bang, Prakash Amtenna Sath Denarya Mandatai, Narayan Murthinna sath Denarya Sudha Murthi thod mage jat Jyotiba Phulyanna Sath Denarya Savitri Bai hi Tevdhyach Mahan Aahet. Tuzya babtithi asech hou shkte. Tuzyawar prem karnara aani respect Denara Kartabgar mulga jar tujha Jodidar Banla tar tu pan sukhi aayush jagu shaktes.
    Avivahit rahun Mul Dattak Ghene sudha Nisrga Niyamavirudhach aahe. Matrutva ha Nisrga Nilyam Aahe Aai Bantana Honarya vednahi sushya hotat pan mul Dattak Gheun Raktach Nat Nahi Nibhvta yet. Anjelina Jolly(Hollywood Actress) ne 6 mul Dattak Ghetli tar Sushmita sen(Ex Miss Univers) ne 2 mul Dattak Ghetlit. Pan Ya mullanna Tya Kharach Matech Prem Deu Shaklya ka ? (Karn-mimansa shodhlyas nako te mudde pudhe yetil) Tar Uttar Nakaratmakach yeil.
    Shevti yevdhach Mhanen ki, Aaplyala je watat tyala karna nakkich aastat. Pan tyawar kshnik vichar talun long life parinamancha vichar karava mag tyasathi samajachi parva na karta to Nirnay Amlatahi aanava. Karan samj kasa aahe tar Tukaram Maharaj Sangtat “ Lagna karu jata mhanti ha matla, Na karu jata Mhanti ha Napusak” Mag “SamajaSathi Jagaychay ki Swatasathi jagun samajrun phedaychay” te aadhi Nichhit kar. Pan “Lagna n karnyacha vichar Mhanje purnapane avichari Nirnay aahe” asech me mhanen.

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  8. sub khrch khup chhan
    khinche mhne lgan n krnyache ani khinche mhne lgn krave pna ha koni vichar kela ka ki lgan kellyaver sudha jer tila respect ani sath ani prem nahi milal ter ek udahrn dete eka muline lgan kele karn ha smaj tichay ghrchyana nit jgu denar nahi ani tichaya aai vadilana wait vatel mhnun tine tichya kutumbacha vichar krun lgn kele pan jer lgna nater tila nit vagnuk nahi milali to tila smjun jer ghet nasel ter tila tich man mokl dekhil krta yet nasel tichaya nvrya sobt ter tine kai krav
    prtekane lgna krav as tumch mhn ahe ter lgnater jer to smjun ghenara nsel purush prdhan snskuti prmane to mhnel tasch tine aikav ani krav bs yt atich astitv kuthe ast lgna nahikel ter ha smaj tich asttiv tiku nahi denar ani kel teri nvra tich astti v tiku nahi denar mhnje thodkkya ek bai hi fkt yachy tyacha grja purn krnya sathich aste lgna adhi tine aai vdinsathi krav je kai krel te tyancha vichar krun krav ani lgna nanter dekhil ti jer part maheri glei teri tichya aai vdlana ha smaj kai mhnel mhnun tine nvra mhnel tas rahav yt lgn n krun hi tila hav te nahi milu shkt ani lgna krun hi karn smaj ha prush prdhan ahe ajunhi ekhdi bai pudhe geleli tya nahi avdt ani rahila mulnacha prshn nisrgacha niym ha hai ahe ki mule mothi jahli kinva tyana smjayla lgi ki te swta swtache nirny ghetat tevha tyana dekhil tyanchay aai chi kalji kuthe aste 21 vya shtkat fkt mhnayla ahe pan riti rivaj hya juny akalatlya edjucated lok sudha mulg aani muli mdhe frk kratat ha smaj aj hi mulga hava mhnun kitek bali jatat ha asa smaj ajj hi mul(boy) mothe houn apply aai baba lathaltat teri dekhil smajhal mulga hava asto ka ek mulgi nahi smbhalu shkt tiche aai baba na jer tumhi moth mothya person chi udahrne dilit ter he pudhe jaun koni teri moth honar udyala tumhi hich udahrn hi konal teri denar prtek jan jitoba fule etc prmane nahi nighala ter mg tya bai ne kai krave sgl kahi shn kravt rahave karn ha smaj tichya brobr ticha maherchyana pan nit jagu nahi denar hya mulech na

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  9. Nahi lagn n karane khup chikich ahe hi disigen mi ter sangen apale aai ani vadil yana gheudet
    bec aj apan ahe te fakt tyanchya mule ani jer tyanch aikat nasel ter te khup chukich manal jail
    ani jer tyana he manya asel ter its ok tu rahu shaktes without marriage asha veles samajacha pan nahi vichar karaycha samaj fakt gammat pahayala asato jevha vait vel yete tevha fakt jvl ubhe rahtat apli manas
    je aplyala patat tech apan karav
    life madhe only carrier is not good
    ani as pan nahi ki marriage ntr carrier karta yenar nahi ulat khup chan support milel je work akti karat hoti tech kam karayla konitri hakkach manus bhetal
    ani as konitri asav je aplyaver hakk dakhavel samjun sangel
    jevha akhadi mulagi he karun dakhavel tevha nakkich life madhe ti succes asel and always happy asel
    ani nusat carrier manje life as nahi
    janmala apan alo tyach kahitri son karun ghya apal jiven apan ghadvaych asat
    jatana apan sange kahi gheun jat nahi sange yet te fakt prem
    mhanu life life jaga pan apali manas dharun

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  10. samajakade pahnyapeksha nisarga kade paha....stri n purrush or male or female ekmekasathi banlele astat....n ya natyat khup prem asel tr jivan trupt zal asa anubhav yeyil..... Manus tr premacha bhukela asto n.... N saglech pati ase nstat hi.... Ekadya dusrya exampl vrun as mat banane yogya nahi watat....

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  11. mala kahich samjal nahi mala mail kar
    suraj11more@gmail.com

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  12. प्रेम ,प्रियकर, लग्न, पति, बाळ, आईपण सर्वांमुळे समृद्ध जीवन जगणे शक्य आहे ! फक्त प्रेम, संयम, सहनशीलता आणि त्याग यांची सोबत आपल्या जवळ असावी …!!

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  13. manala sparsh karnare , dokyala vichar karayla lavnare vichar aahet .

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  15. Mala teri lagnchi bhiti dar nirman zala mi sahi shakat nahi mazya manat askhya question badle lagn matle ki

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  16. samajacha kashala boltes tai, gharatle tri kuthe samjun ghetat aplyala g.

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  17. Tula padlela prashn chukicha nai.pn
    Jodidar jr aplyala sambhalun ghenara.ajchya Kala nusar vichar karnara.tyachi mat sangnara ani apl mat janun ghenara asel tr nakkich life made lagn karavs vatel. Swapnil joshi mukta brve la bolto tula ky vatat te kr.tyachya movie made. Agdi ts.

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