Vadhu-Var Melavyache Tedha....??????

melava mhatla ki sarva upavar vadhu-var n tyanchya so called shubhechhuk mata pityanchi n kahi nate vaikanchi gardi. stage var ek ek vadhu che n mg varanche nav pukarle janar... nav pukarlelya candidate ne stage var jayche n jo lihun dilela biodata asto toch tond path mhanun dhakhvaycha.... showroom made laglelya navya vastu kade bagtat tase khali ubhe/baslelya ichhukanni tiche/tyache aikayche.... (bahutek vela mula stage var yetach nahit) mg ti khali utarli ki jar aaplya budget made asel tar vicharna karayla tutun padayche. hoy tutunch padayche karan hatcha mal nistayla nako.... nahi tar dhukunhi baghayche nahi.... thodya far farkane asech sarva samajanche, jati-dharmanche melave hotat. tyamule lagna mhanje katkat n tyat melavyala jayche mhanje aapan bajarat aanleli vastu aahot ka...???? keval aaplya disnyavar n pagar, shikshanavar aapla jodidar tharvaycha ka???? "man", "swabhav" julne yache sthan aahe ka n asel tar kitve...?????? ase anek prashna upavar-vadhuna padtat...
mtra yaveli mi attend kelelya ek melavyat mala he kahich janavle nahi... how strange na...!!!!!! mi var mhatlya pramane ekach melava attend kela. n tyanantar melava chukunhi attend na karnyacha tharvla hota... bt Saath Saath sansthechya melavyache swarup ek press conference made kalale n yat vegle kay aahe te baghanyasathi mhnun khas gele. games dwara te sarvanchi ek mekana olakha karun denar hote... mhanj stage var janyache talale... tyapramane tyani aalelya sarvana ek circle made ubhe kele. pratyekane samor yeun aapalya nava sobat ek action karaychi n nav sangayche. ase kartana kahi pramanat booj kami zalyache janavle... bt saglech anolkhi mhatlyavar thode odd vatatach hote. n mukhya bab mhanje yethe palkana pravesh navta. tyamule jara jastach relax vatat hota... jas jase sagle jamle tase aadhi mula kiti, konte n kase aalet he bagitale.... bt muli 35 n kevat 8 mula hoti. so nirasha zali bt aata keval enjoy karayche he pakka zala. ek ek game suru zale. tyaveli aapan ithe ka aalot... 100 rs ka ghalvlet ase kahise vatle khare... bt tyanantar jenva tya khela magacha hetu, morral of the story sangitali ki are.. asepan hou shakte ki kharach asa vatat hota. ex.- gol palayla laun achanak ek aakda det. paune 8, sade 10 mg group made jevdehi lok astil tyani ti sankhya banvayche. mg group madli loka jasta asli tari tyana tyat samaun khyayche... khup majja aali.. n tyat shiklo ki aaplya chaukatit koni basat nahi mhanun tyala kadhuntaknyapeksha thoda vakla, flexibility dajhavali ki kitihi janana aapan samavun gheu shakto. fakta tatharpana sodava lagto. nantar group discussions zale... tyache tajdnyani observations ghetle n tyat aslelya kamtarta nantarchya lecture made tyani purna kelya...

ya melavyat jaun mala jodidar tar nahi milala... bt tyachya vishaichya, mazya vishaichya, sansaravishaichya anek gosti, concept clear zalyat... nemake milvayche kay aahe, tya drustine jodidar shodhatana kuthe compramise hou sakte n kuthe khambir rahane aavshyak aahe... aai-babana jari ghai asli tari aapan kuthe dhir thevane n dene aavashyak aahe he aapanach tharvayche aste....tyasathiche khule, bold n spasta margadarshan milalyane nidan ya melavya vishaichi tedha manatun purna nighun geli....

kadi na padlela swapna.....

mala paus ajibatach aavdat nahi. saglikade chikchik, ghaan, olava n aswachhata... gharat basun baher jari paus padat asla tari to nakosa hoto. karan to padnya aadhi mhanj jenva pavsali vatavaran hote tenva mungle nigtat n to padun gela ki mashya hotat... agdi kitihi phenyl takun ghar kitihi vela pusle tari... agdi angavar kata yava evda kilasvana kal vatato ha...
hi bhavana agdi kal paryanta hoti... bt kal achanakch sakalpasun paus suru zala. mala te kalale bt tarihi pavsacha rag nahi aala... gharachya khidkit basun tyala nyahalavese vatle... khup divas unhat taplelya tahanlelya panana tyala mansokta pitana bagun ek vegalich trupti malach vatat hoti. aswachha vatnara ha paus kal ugach khup swachh vatu lagla... pratyek zadache pratyek pan dhuvun kadat hota to... tyachya tyalavar chimba bhijat nachnari palavi bagun mazehi paula ugach thiraklit... tyacha sangit manala ved lavnara vatala....
hatat vafalalelya cofe cha cup, tyacha sugandha dokyat bhinla n swatahatil ya badalavar shabaski denyasathi swatalach mithit ghele n cofechya pratyek ghota barobar pavsala dolyat n manat sathavle....
how strange na.... :)